Motivational Monday #6

Happy Monday Lovelies!

Hope you've all had an amazing weekend, I know I have!

Ok, so its that time of the week again - Motivational Monday :) 

The inspiration for this post today is after having numerous conversations with female friends. These kinds of conversations normally happen when the drinks are flowing and we were getting more and more tipsy which means the conversations get more emotional, and heart to heart.

I realised after a few drinks and a few lengthy conversation - many women around the world feel insecure and totally inadequate compared to other people which then affects their friendships, work and relationships.

I would be extremely silly if I was to sit here and say that I have no insecurities or I don't have days where I feel 'fat' or 'ugly' but everybody has those days where they just don't feel 100% themselves. But what I will say is that I am 100% confident with who I am and how I look. Which is a lot more sexy and attractive in a woman than anything else.

I find it a real shame and rather upsetting to hear people who are close to me not feel confident about themselves and the way they look. Every single person in the world has something that they should feel proud about, confident about and equally makes them feel attractive. 

I don't like the fact that we live in a society where people are judged by the way they look before they even open their mouth and let their personalities shine. Being happy, confident and kind should be the sort of traits we as individuals are judge upon, not the way we dress, how pretty/attractive we look or if we have perfect teeth, designer labels or the best haircut. 

Everyone should take today to think of at least one thing they love about themselves and use that as fuel to create a more positive, beautiful day. If you really can't think of anything (but you should because you should be happy with who you are) then complement somebody else on something you like about them to ensure they have a huge smile on their face for the rest of the day. Regardless, of how you look, dress or feel you should be extremely proud of yourself. Through the good, the bad and the ugly times that life throws at you, you have made it this far and it has created the person you are today - so smile about it! No one knows what journey you have traveled to get to this point in your life so don't let people judge you, say horrible things or make you feel inadequate as you are only as good as the person stood/sat next to you. You are an individual, an original and no one could do a better job at being you than you. Embrace yourself, do something you've always wanted to do and motivate yourself to be the best version of you, you could possibly be and live your life how you want it and I can assure you things will run much smoother and less people will judge as they will realise that nothing could stand in your way. Surround yourself with the ones you love and who love you just as much back, do things you love and work hard all the time and your life is yours and I bet many people think you look radiant! No to mention the attention you will get in your love life ;) People love a confident, happy and comfortable person.

So, remember Lovelies you are beautiful and you look fine! Go and enjoy your Monday and make sure you have a huge smile on your face while you're doing it.

Hopeful

xxx